November 17, 2020 at 4:21 pm #115646
Hi everybody, at work I met a really nice girl, i stalked a bit before about her on facebook, and she was in a relationship, we talked lot of times at work like a real flirting, after few days she changed the status to single, and 2 days after that, she added me on facebook, we started to chat a bit and its a really fun conversation, everything is smooth, but at work I dont have a feeling she feel something, when we speak alone its smooth, good and fun, when we are in a group of people like coworkes, she dont look at me too much and now I dont know where am I, any help please, I apologize about my english, thanksNovember 17, 2020 at 4:23 pm #115647
Btw I mentioned that status from relationship to single, she was laughing and like i said, everything wase smoothNovember 18, 2020 at 12:50 am #115648
An update, we talked today a lot, It came by itself how she is single and me, I explained everything to her, she to me, so she is single for 4 years, and she was devasted from the break up, heartbroken, maybe thats why she is unsecure to start something new, any ideas someone, thanks
Btw I asked her why she added me on facebook, she said only cause we are friends now
November 19, 2020 at 3:49 pm #115652
- This reply was modified 2 weeks ago by AssassinK.
@AssassinK When did you meet her at work? You two get along well and she thinks of you as a friend..
Maybe you could ask her to go for a walk after work to get to know each other better..November 20, 2020 at 2:45 am #115653
I met her 2 weeks ago at work, we chated today a bit, and today she sent for the first time some heart emojis like goodnight night I see you today at work (emoji heart)
But my friend said, there is something because she didnt add him, the other friends as well on facebook, because she told me, we are friends now and thats the reason why she added me, maybe she dont want to say the truth, there must be something why she added me and changed the relationship status to single, if she is not interested somehow she would not add me like the other friends, and she would not chat with me, I just dont want to be friendzoned 😂
So, somehow its going slow, we met, started to talk, chated, now the emojis, she took a picture as well like she is in bed and shes watching a movie
The only thing whats bothering me is, I already asked her for a drink, and she said she dont drink before work, because she cant work when she drinks, and like the pubs are closed, after that I wrote something and straight away I asked like “Weekend?” (Because we are off weekends), so I wrote two messages in a row, she responded to the first question but she skipped the weekend question, did she saw the weekend question I dont know, I will say again, I am really sorry about my english, but I dont want to go again trough something like that, because 9 months ago my ex left me, so till I ask her for a walk directly in real (not texts) I will not know where am I
I hope you understand, thank you very much for the helpNovember 20, 2020 at 2:51 am #115654
One more thing, when we are in a group with our coworkers, (we all smoking together outside and before the work as well), she is a bit different, she dont look at me too much, her ex left her 4 years ago, he was working in the same company, so maybe she dont want to go trough the same thing at work with me, or she dont want to show her feelings too much in front of the other coworkers, because they know probably the situation beetwen her and her ex, thats mine opinion, I am sorry for the long textNovember 20, 2020 at 3:18 pm #115655
@AssassinK It’s never a good idea to date a co-worker!! And it’s never a good idea to drink before work!!
Also, it’s not a good thing to ask someone out by text! Maybe next week, ask her in person to go for a walk after work. And to be realistic, of course you’re just friends. What more could you expect after only 2 weeks..
You wrote:”maybe she dont want to go trough the same thing at work with me, or she dont want to show her feelings too much in front of the other coworkers” What feelings?? She is a co-worker and friend right now.November 21, 2020 at 1:07 am #115656
I asked her out today for a walk, she accepted it, she said yesNovember 21, 2020 at 3:44 pm #115658
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