I was with my ex for 6 years. I had some issues with showing love over the years. He left me in November for a beautiful girl. I was devastated. I have since done so much to work on my self. I am such a better person now. I am healed.
I have done the no contact & everything I am supposed to do. Still no luck. He is still with this girl & it breaks my heart. I love him & feel like I messed up & just want another chance to make it right. I have also been using the Law of Attraction hoping to get some results. I am staying positive, going out, having fun, living life.
@ginger2021 You could send him an elephant in the room letter telling him you know what the problem was during the relationship and how you’ve changed for the better. But don’t try to encourage him to break up with the new girl..
The Law of Attraction didn’t work for Jodie Arias and you shouldn’t put so much faith in it. Staying positive and living your life to the fullest is good, but believing things come to you just by thinking and believing it is fantasy..
You’re doing the right things by getting on with your life and staying positive, it takes real strength to look at yourself and admit your flaws in my opinion. Did he get with this girl shortly after breaking up, a rebound? I can relate, the sheer thought of my ex with someone else drives me insane. How long has it been since you broke up?