@ginger2021 You could send him an elephant in the room letter telling him you know what the problem was during the relationship and how you’ve changed for the better. But don’t try to encourage him to break up with the new girl..
The Law of Attraction didn’t work for Jodie Arias and you shouldn’t put so much faith in it. Staying positive and living your life to the fullest is good, but believing things come to you just by thinking and believing it is fantasy..