March 14, 2016 at 12:53 pm #59845
she has been heavily working out ever since she heard I was coming back too, and now she ask me a lot of advice. Im very into fitness. Also during our convo I learned our mutual friend was basically lying to both of us, telling me to go for it and a bunch of wrong information. And telling her to leave me alone, and remember all the bad stuff i did to her ect stuff like that. And also telling our business to other people. So now that we both talked without the middle man, Its been really cool like we are closer. Still not going over kill though or talking about my plans of getting back together eventuallyMarch 17, 2016 at 7:32 am #59957Ras217Participant
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Hey mosis – yes I think that’s a great plan. I didn’t realize she was in a relationship. And you’re right, you don’t want to start a new relationship with her while she’s with someone else. That never ends well. Just be yourself and be open and honest. You can’t go wrong! Are you dating anyone else?
So you definitely think I shouldn’t call him back? I keep thinking I’M the jerk now for ignoring his call. I had so much stuff going on last week anyway. But now I’m like……. should I call him? I still miss him so much. But he hurt me. THREE times. That’s not cool.
I’ve been dating others and it’s fine and all… I like the attention. But last night I really just wanted to see HIM.
UGH.April 18, 2016 at 2:51 pm #60849
hey how everyone been?
feel like we are to the point we don’t need this anymore, but I still have thoughts about how y’all are doing 😛
I been good, and things have been changing between my ex and I, slightly a lot of work and honesty. She is unfortunately in a relationship still but I’m willing to wait it out, which i think eventually it will be over as we have been getting closer. Havent forced anything and let her come to her own conclusions, and make her own decisions but she knows how i feel, and i respect her space. I still go on dates, but i don’t put it in her face, she wonders about it. But she is working on trusting me again. Its been pretty great actually.April 18, 2016 at 2:57 pm #60850
oh Ras217 just noticed you replied! i never got that notification for some reason.
have you talked to him since march? I understand the feelings of wanting him still, and I’ve came to the conclusion rather we agree or not you want what you want, nobody can tell you what to choose with your life. Hopefully he doesn’t hurt you again, i would hate to see it happen. He is odd to me because for myself i was just in a lot of bad timing situations and made mistakes. But your ex seems to have a lot of self issues. Its been awhile, are you still feeling the want to work things out with him and or forgive him? I would proceed with great caution and he prove himself if he doesn’t enter again, for as long has it takes him. If he can be that dedicated
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