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    George12
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    I have completed the 30 day no contact. I have texted him a few times and he does reply to my text messages. I keep the messages short and when he replies then I tell him I have to go. Should I text him and see if he wants to get a drink? We were together for 2 1/2 years and talking about getting married. When it came time to propose he freaked out and told me something was wrong with his head and that he didn’t love me. He started seeing someone three weeks later. We broke up Oct. 21st. I feel like I’m running out of time. I talked to his Mom on Facebook and I guess she is coming down and will meet her.What should I do?

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    patricia12
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    He’s been with the other woman like 4 1/2 months. There’s nothing you can do and you should stop texting him. His Mom will be meeting her. It would be better not to contact his Mom on Facebook again as she probably doesn’t want to get into the middle of this. Sorry, I know you must have been hurt because of all you’ve been through, but continue dating other guys if you want to. Wish you the best..

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    George12
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    Hi Patricia12,
    Thanks for the advice but In the beginning when I got on this site I was told not to give up. We have 2 1/2 years together compared to their 4 months. His mother reached out or me. I have been texting him since Feb. which is a total of 4 text messages. I’m still going to try the program and see if he will meet me out for drinks.

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    patricia12
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    Okay. Hope he will meet with you and try to work things out. Good luck..

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