I just started NC with my ex, I broke up with him but it was because of his drinking and I’m hoping he will clean up during this time apart.
We’re two weeks in and I feel horrible. How do I decide if I should wait 30 or 60 days to contact him? I want to know so badly how his addiction therapy is going and if he really is getting sober. I’m worried about his health. But I know there is nothing I can do, as no amount of support seemed to help.
So what decides how long you go for? I’ve read a lot about NC and I’ve seen both.