January 28, 2015 at 11:55 am #27196
Ah. Laws of attraction. How would they play here?January 28, 2015 at 12:14 pm #27201
Well, I mean she told you some pretty good things, yes? If I had been told these things, I would definitely be happy but I’d continue on my path of my own personal journey to attract the things I like.
I’ve noticed something interesting lately. The more I’ve gotten in tune with myself, the more I’ve had periods of deja vu and LOTS of times where I feel like my body is vibrating (kind of like how you get cold chills/goosebumps). Oddly enough, I’ve gotten to the point where if I think of something that makes me happy or see something that makes me happy, I get the vibrations. I’m not sure if this ties into anything, but boy does it feel nice!January 28, 2015 at 12:23 pm #27207
You’re not the first to talk about vibrations with me. I’ve started doing new things and I’d be buzzing after them. Almost feeling high.
I should Trust The Old dear then. I Suppose my scepticism stems a lot from my family’s story. Sometimes “predicting” things. Just on my dad’s side. So we hid it always for fear of being the Freaks.
I feel now for the first time in years/decades that something is right with the world when in fact I should be feeling the opposite.
I’m in nc right now to teach her a lesson more than anything. She started texting yesterday and it intensified today. Turning to anger and eventually and old inside joke. It’s hard to not reply but the tea woman said to Trust my gut. I don’t think I will need the full 30 days. Something says she will buckle before that. Let’s see.
But I felt today for the first time that I had the power and the control and she was feeling the pain.
Hope you follow meJanuary 28, 2015 at 12:26 pm #27209
Actually I take the teaching her a lesson bit back. Bit harsh. But sort of the point. Plus it helps to improve thingsJanuary 28, 2015 at 1:26 pm #27227
I follow you loud and clear. I’ve got the power, just as I have every time before when my ex decided to tuck tail and run. This time though, it’s so much more than ever before. Role reversal and all that good jazz.
My brother also has deja vu, though his usually happen in dreams and can be about things he never has experienced before, usually before his time and it ties in with the rest of my family’s experiences. For me, it’s almost like I will have an episode of deja vu and it’s kind of a foreshadowing. I have the option to go along with whatever is happening or not. I’ve seen things that just click and have the feeling of my ex coming back to me in the future. Lately it’s like they’ve come out of absolutely nowhere when I’m not even thinking about my ex and just doing my normal routine. It’s strange, but interesting.
I know there is a local psychic around here that seems to know her stuff really well. I’ve thought about going to see her, despite being somewhat skeptical but mostly out of fear that someone would harp on me for going. Perhaps I’ll venture out and see what she has to offer. At the very least, it would be a new experience for me!January 28, 2015 at 1:30 pm #27231
I wouldn’t call what he has deja vu actually, more of sight I guess would be the right term lol. We both keep it from the rest of our family as we’re afraid to be “those people.”January 28, 2015 at 1:58 pm #27239
I hear you. One of my sisters is frightening. Usually spot on. She says to go with your gut too. Some people don’t even understand that. I feel strongly that my ex will come back. I have a feeling when too but don’t want to say.
I almost feel her frustration today. Odd I know. I feel like it’s turned to anger again now.
Anyway. Nc is tough. Think another few days to a week but might have to give in.
Don’t know yet.
Btw. My sister told me last October when we had the first big bust up that we would get back together. But it would take a lot longer than I would hope for. Never expected to be facing February without herJanuary 28, 2015 at 2:14 pm #27246
I have that feeling with mine too, though it could be because I’m used to her running off and coming back every so often (her stray cat mentality again). I can also relate with what you mean feeling her frustration and the like. I think when we’re with a certain special someone long enough, we sync almost. Distance means nothing. Some days I’ll be really happy and doing well, and it’s like out of nowhere I just have this feeling of regret. But there’s nothing really for me to regret…
I recall telling my ex once that I felt we were soulmates and she agreed with me, saying she felt the same. I’m of mind though that sometimes, in whatever lifetime we may be experiencing, we miss one another somehow and paths never cross. But other times, we don’t and make up for lost time truly appreciating one another. I’m not sure at this point which is which this time, but we’ll find out in time. My intuition is rarely wrong when I go from the gut with decisions, so I don’t think this time will be any different. My gut told me not to chase this time, so I’m not going to. If it works out this go, it does. If not, there’s always next time.
I’ve given my ex around 3 months before she caves. One month down already, as she’s usually back just shy of a month in the past at the longest. Being really generous, until the beginning of summer before she comes running.January 28, 2015 at 3:05 pm #27262
Yeah. I’m going with my gut too. Lots say move on she’s gone. But whether I just don’t want to believe that or not, I have such a strong feeling. Plus, why not have faith in the tea woman. She wasn’t wrong before.January 28, 2015 at 3:49 pm #27294
I get that from others too. Guts for the win!January 29, 2015 at 4:13 am #27407
Yesterday I told you about her texting me and getting angry etc. Later she text one sentence. An inside joke that only I would understand about eating bananas. Now, i take that positively. she is thinking of me whilst doing something so mundane as eating a banana. I didn’t reply…I felt power….
But late yesterday I suddenly felt so strange. It was as if I could feel her. As if she was really worried, anxious or something. I could almost see her. This sounds odd I know but maybe you might understand.
It got so bad that I couldn’t put up with it anymore. I replied with a Smiley face. I know i broke NC because of it and must start again. But within minutes the Feeling of her worry subsided and I felt somewhat drained.
Today I started Feeling drained but I slowly feel myself gettig better. The Thing that is in my head constant today is that something has changed. I don’t know what. I feel as if she has changed. That her Anger and disappointment towards me has changed and is turning to love or something.
she told me a week ago that she was sort of seeing someone else, but judging by her Actions yesterday, that mustn’t mean too much or she wouldn’t have gotten angry followed by an old Memory to diffuse things.
Anyway, my question is what do you think of These Feelings? These Feelings that I think I can feel her and hear her thoughts? That for some reason the chase is on, but not me doing the chasing now.
Thanks for your time reading thisJanuary 29, 2015 at 6:18 am #27422
And another Thing. Say we are all here to build ourselves up and use the laws of attraction, the laws say that if he or she calls during no contact then Keep it Brief. What way would you deal with that? Just like I did yesterday?
ThanksJanuary 29, 2015 at 7:33 am #27433
Patrick, I think many of us have that connection with our exes. As I said before, I will be perfectly content doing something I enjoy and then all of the sudden there’s a sort of overwhelming sense of sadness and regret. There’s no reason for me to fell that way when I’m doing so well, especially sense it’s out of nowhere. But I can also pick up on the stubbornness which just makes me roll my eyes.
I would say to tread lightly at times, but go with your gut. Sounds like what you did yesterday was okay since you waited a little bit. It’s good that she made the inside joke, but remember, you have the power now not her.January 29, 2015 at 7:47 am #27438
OK thanks for that. I waited about 5 hours before sending that. It feel now almost like a relief of sorts. She can be stubborn as a mule when she wants to. But you’re right. I do have the power now.
I think she was suddenly scared. Of what exactly i’m not yet sure. Neither is she. But she surely noticed the Change and from now on she may well be the one watching the phone and waiting. And the Tension will build. Thanks for reassuring me on yesterday. Some said it was a Major blip but i felt like i had to do it. I won’t the next time. But I am almost certain that her Focus has suddenly shifted. I feel like I am being watched now.January 29, 2015 at 8:11 am #27439
And the ‘someone else’ mustn’t mean a lot if she acted like that. The power has shifted
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