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I think there’s A LOT of things you’re all missing here.
The longer an ex goes without contacting you, the more worried you should be and the more LIKELY they have moved on or are in the process of moving on. I think that period is anywhere after a month.
I also feel that ignoring your ex, or ANYBODY in general, is EXTREMELY rude and will get you NO WHERE.
If my dumper ex randomly sent me a text telling me she missed me, I would be inclined to answer her (the next day if she sends her text after 7pm). I would ask her out.
I’d REALLY go against avoiding the text altogether because they ex is just going to assume you don’t want to speak to them.
These are my two cents though … if you want to ignore them go ahead.
I agree with you… that’s why I regret not texting him back! Is it too late? If not, what should I say?
SolidTurd, Under normal circumstances I would 100% agree with you. The thought of not responding to someone who took time and effort and thought to communicate with me, is a huge blow to my normal modus operandi, but this is not normal circumstances. Emergencies, yes… but “I miss you” is only an emergency if you’re in need of an emergency. But, as SolidTurd say’s, do what you want to do. Only you know your situation, yourself and your ex 🙂 Date time 🙂
Sooooo… is it a bad sign when they read your message 2 hours ago and no reply yet?
Why is this even happening?! Things were fine before. Ugh.
@Ras217 … It’s been 2 HOURS!! You need to relax.
They might not even respond today. It just means either they’re busy or they’re thinking of what to answer.
Just read back on this haha!
I didn’t contact him for 3 months in the end. No calls or texts or anything.
Guess who came crawling back, begging to take me back because he realised how little he appreciates me/missed me/loved me?!
solidTurd although I see your point, I don’t think it’s rude not to reply in all circumstances as it depends on the situation. If you were with someone who has a reputation for dumping someone and then when no one comes
Around again, texting their ex to say they miss them- damn right I wouldn’t reply to them! And if I had been horrdidly horridly cheated on, there’s no way I would reply, no matter how much I loved or still loved them. but I think if an ex dumps you and says they miss you 2 days later, its the attention they miss, not you as a person. That’s my opinion of it anyway :p
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